About Us

About Us

We are a group of people who want to help others discover the truths about BDSM, and not what they've watched on a adult video aka pornography. We want to help those find where they perhaps belong, what others love is in this world of kink we live in.

We always advocate Consent and Assent!  We feel that anything else is abuse, plain and simple. And that is NOT BDSM. BDSM is also about respect between the statuses. If in doubt, Ask..


July 2016

And then there was one.. I am the last admin associated with this website. All the other admins are currently leaving or in the process of leaving. As other Lifestyles that were once associated with BDSM have now given way to other aspects. Therefore leaving me in control. And we're about to go in a new direction!


February 2016

We have suffered a catastrophic event which lost most of our website. We're trying to reclaim all those articles written long ago.

Despite the fact that we did have multiple backups on multiple devices/forms, we still lost all.

So bear with us!