A Submissive’s Bill of Rights

I have the right to be treated with respect. Not only do I have this right, I have the right to demand it. Being submissive does not make me a doormat or less of a person than anyone else. The word “submissive” describes my nature and in no way diminishes me  as a human being. Read More …

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Who Chooses? The Dominant, The Submissive or both?

Who Chooses? The Dominant, The Submissive or both? So, this subject has come up time and time again on various forums and conversations. Who chooses who? Does the Submissive choose the Dominant, dose the Dominant choose the Submissive? Is it a bit of both? I’ve seen this reworded for the Vanilla Sect as well, “does Read More …

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How to Obtain and Check references..an addendum to Avoiding problem people.

How to Obtain and Check references..an addendum to Avoiding problem people. Always talk to people face to face. email isn’t enough anymore. what with sock-puppet profiles an’ all.  IM Video chat is good for making sure you are talking to real people.. after an in person coffee meet in a mall food court.. or via Read More …

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The Mistress’s creed

Above all else She cherishes Her submissive, in the knowledge that the submission of his will to her authority, is the greatest gift of all. She has high standards and takes full advantage of the power given to Her, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift. She is in Read More …

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How do I develop a personal code of ethics?

How do I develop a personal code of ethics? How do I develop a personal code of ethics? Developing your own personal code of ethics is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. A personal code of ethics puts into writing those ideas and philosophies that are the essence of your Read More …

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Create a Personal Code of Ethics

Create a Personal Code of Ethics is a more detailed Article on this. The release we find in this Lifestyle helps keep that in check, it also helps creativity and provides a stress release that normal methods couldn’t help relieve. Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism, to name a few, create a larger overtone of what we Read More …

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